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Every Sunday Stoke Newington Quakers Meeting for Worship
at 10.00 am St. Mary's Community Hall, Defoe Rd., London N16 - see Find Us page for details.

Second Sunday of the month in January, March, May, July, September and November Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting
at St. Mary's Hall. At 12 noon. Following a shared lunch.

Every fourth Sunday of the month Breakfast Meeting
at St Mary's Church Hall. From 9 am.
Come, eat and discuss!

Every Monday Quaker Quest
at 6.30 at Friends House, Euston Rd - see Links page for details.

If you're interested in going to Quakers events outside of Stoke Newington, the new London Quakers website has good sections of Quaker News and Events across London and a bit beyond.

2008

Sun. 13 January, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sat. 26 January, Area Meeting at New Barnet, 2 pm,

Sun. 10 February, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. Oliver Robertson talks about his year's internship at Quaker United Nations Office in Geneva. 12 noon.

Sun. 9 March, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sun. 16 March, Area Meeting at Winchmore Hill, 2 pm,

Sun. 13 April, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. 12 noon.

Sun. 11 May, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sat. 17 May, Area Meeting at Stoke Newington, 2 pm,

Sun. 8 June, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. 12 noon.

Sun. 13 July, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sun. 20 July, Area Meeting at Tottenham, 2 pm,

Sun. 10 August, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. 12 noon. (TBC)

Sun. 14 September, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sun. 21 September, Area Meeting at Bunhill Fields, 2 pm

Sun. 12 October, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. 12 noon.

Sun. 9 November, Stoke Newington Quakers Business Meeting at 12 noon.

Sat 22 November, Area Meeting at Winchmore Hill, 10.30 am

Sun. 14 December, Stoke Newingon Quakers Meeting for Learning. 12 noon.

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NEWS OF FRIENDS

Tigerlili and Adam Cavill  Rebecca Francis   Zehra Balman
Charles Hodson   Oliver Robertson

  Tigerlili & Adam Cavill, who have been worshipping with us for the past six months, have moved to Princeton in New Jersey, where Adam has a new job. We’re very sorry to lose them just when we were getting to know them, and wish them a very happy time.

Tigerlili writes:- "Thank you for your last message. I'm sad we didnt get to see you before we left, but I'm sure we will see you again. We are going to try one of the New York meetings either this weekend or next, and I'll be sure to report back. We have settled in a lovely place called Hoboken which is about 20 minutes into New York. A couple of evenings ago we saw a performance of Mozart's Requiem Mass at a Catholic Church round the corner which was holding a community evening for peace. It was very moving.

    Please send our regards to all at the meeting

In the meantime our blog is at www.acavill.com.
Nov. 2006.

More about Tigerlili and Adam, below, including their first American Quaker Meeting.

  Rebecca Francis has moved to Chedworth, another village in Gloucestershire. “We have spent much of summer in our van in Cornwall and Wales and now back to school and life ...Esme has started school much to her disgust! Callum is in Year 3. The village is where the school is, and the pub and even a farm shop! Ant is rushing about teaching at 3 Universities and I try to do freelance Human Rights training as little as poss as there is no childcare here....It is a bit 'full on' as always but beautiful and we have a cat, a tree house in the apple tree and walk to school over the fields. We miss you all.”
Nov. 2006.

  Our Friend Zehra Balman who has spent some years in a community on the Isle of Erraid in the Hebrides, then in the Burnlaw Bahai community, writes:- "I returned to London on 6/11. On 19/12 I go to India until 20/01/07. Then on 17 February I go to Northern Cyprus. In the meantime I am looking for jobs part-time, temporary jobs... I am hoping to attend a Meeting at Stoke Newington as soon as I can and look forward to seeing you. A few months ago I became a Bahai. I am well and adjusting to living in London...not easy....
Nov. 2006.

•   More from Tigerlili:- "We have had a busy few days. We went to the 15th Street Quaker meeting on Sunday. It starts at the very sociably agreeable hour of 11am, so we got up at 9 (what luxury as Adam normally gets up at 6.30 during the week!)

We travel by rail over to New York, it takes us about half an hour door to door. The Quaker building is opposite a park, and surrounded by other churches. Many people are just leaving their places of worship at this time, a Catholic priest with a smile like Robert DeNiro beams at his parishioners, on the steps outside, I'm sure he converted the fallen leaves to suddenly charge up the stone steps and gather in the vestibule, my eyes followed the leaves up and I saw candles and a huge image of Jesus looking like the great hippy Lord of Love that he is.

This is the 15th Street website http://15stfriends.quaker.org/ and I have attached a picture of the room.

15th St. MeetingThe picture attached doesn't really show the room fully. It's over two levels, a main part and then a balcony upstairs. You can see it is the old style, wooden benches, arranged so that the first two are facing each other and the rest are arranged similar to the houses of parliament I think. They have nice long red velvet cushions on them and are wider than church pews so they are comfortable. The room is heated so it is warm, but not sleep inducing. Apart from the red cushions, everything else in the room, the walls, and the benches are painted a soft grey-green, a very pleasing colour that makes the red stand out, and also the people, the view through the window, all seem enhanced by the quiet reassurance of the paint. It's the sort of muted shade that makes you want to think in bright colours.

As we came in two plain clothes Quakers, a man and woman were standing talking in the middle of the room. He was older and had a big hat on, and she was young and looked like I imagine Jane Eyre looks in the book, in a cloak with a fancy umbrella, and her hair was tied in a long braid down her back. (I liked that, there was something romantic about them being untouched by time) They were the only two dressed that way, however, as others filed in, we saw every type of person, every colour, every age. A woman in a wheelchair with limited movement, an ebony spectre with beautiful long black dreadlocks, a smiling fresh faced student, with spectacles and woolly vest jumper and shirt, and a mother with a tiny baby, who fussed and made little crying noises, to which she would kiss the top of its head and snuggle it until it fell asleep.

The meeting commenced at 11, and more people filtered in, until there were about 50 or more. Some spoke about the new democrat status, anger at war etc. Someone talked at length praising Jesus, amen oh lordy lordy amen Jesus! in a more Christian way than I would have expected, something that might have put me off if it had been my first time. I spoke about children, and then others did too, and then about halfway through something magical happened.

Adam nudged me to look to the left and in came all the children, little girls mostly, like little angels, waving paper and glitter pens, the room got warmer and you could hear the children breathing in that way that children do, huffs and snuffs, and little bare hot feet on the pews. And then the rest of the meeting was happier for me, little sniffs and fidgets behind me. Very nice! One of the children spoke in a very Hermione way about the effects of war, and that made me cry a little.

The meeting ended and announcements were made by the Jane Eyre lady. Newcomers were encouraged to introduce themselves. There were about five or six people who had never been to a Meeting before, and the same amount who had come from other meetings. One man had moved from Toronto. We said who we were and sent regards from the Stoke Newington Quakers, and she said that she would like to send the greeting back to you from the 15th Street Quakers. Dry humour was evident in those Elders who gave notices, which is a common feature of the Quakers I've observed.

Notices as usual then. But then the announcement of the death of the mother of a Friend. Notices to volunteer time or food for the homeless Thanksgiving meal. The meeting house is used as a shelter for 15 homeless men and women every night I think. And then the "social hour", with homemade biscuits, cakes and books on sale. Tea and coffee from the big urns. We didn't stay for it because Adam needed Mexican chilli eggs and how could I refuse him?

So we will go again this weekend, and I'll let you know more as I discover it.

Apart from that, on a personal level, this week we went to see a talk by the director of Pi and Requiem for a Dream, about his new film, The Fountain. It's not like his other films at all, it is a love story that takes place in 16th century Spain, then moves to present day and then in distant future, and is an esoteric and sci-fi epic and deals with the idea of eternal life. I'm really looking forward to seeing it, it has no CGI, instead they found the guy that did special effects on movies like Superman, and he filmed things through microscopes and they enlarged them. The results are these incredibly beautiful trippy looking backgrounds and effects. You and Peter might like it. http://thefountainmovie.warnerbros.com

I think we will see Borat over the weekend, too, just to make sure that it is tasteless and very very funny.

Please send our love to all.

Tiger   X
Nov. 2006.

Preston Farm nowBefore  Our Friend Charles Hodson moved to Somerset, where he and his wife Heike have been doing a massive conversion on a farmhouse.

"Good to hear the Stoke N Meeting is in good shape. It is one of the things I do miss now that we are out in Somerset. I am of course fond of my people at Taunton PM but it is actually quite a strain to get to Meeting; an extra 26-mile round trip always seems too much effort when one spends so much time travelling. I must admit I do go to the steeple-house in Stogumber from time to time on the basis that one really ought to form a faith community with one's neighbours and not always be too precious about one's sectarian predilections. I do try to go to Westminster Meeting's lunchtime sessions on a Tuesday if I can (rarely ... grrr) and get my hit of silent worship that way.

Did you catch any of the "Humphrys in Search of God" series on Radio 4? Well worth having a look at the BBC website if you didn't. I was struck by the Quakerish ideas that the Archbish of Canterbury came up with.

As to the house, it is now more or less finished (to the extent that it ever will be), rather more so than the garden which seems to inch forward rather slowly. We are wondering how to find the last £20k needed to put a roof on the barn we rebuilt, Charles and Heike are the middle 2!but the big headline was an award from the Somerset Buildings Preservation Trust for being one of the best conservation projects. Heike must take all the credit; she has now started working for a local architect for one day a week, and is also doing a postgrad course on architectural conservation at the Univ of Plymouth one day a week. I'll tell you in more detail in my dreaded end-of-year letter.

I am bumbling along at work, though am under a slight cloud for speaking truth to power once or twice too often. Power doesn't always like it when you do that, but that's Quakerism for you.

My sons are moving ahead at varying rates and degrees of success/satisfaction. I share a flat in Bloomsbury with Will so I see him often, while Thom should finally be graduating next year, in sha' Allah.

Getting to the pictures is a bit of a problem because of always working weekends, though our flat is very near the Renoir so I'm aware of the film you mention and thought it looked worth seeing. Heike and I sometimes go to a town called Wellington where there's a fine old Art Deco cinema which mainly shows slightly offbeat stuff while occasionally cashing in by showing things like the new Bond flick. Add in a halfway decent curry beforehand and you've got an evening of pleasures so simple you don't have to 'fess up to your oversight group afterwards.

I had a squizz at the website and it does look impressive. It's good that people stay in touch, even if they have decamped to Western Australia.

I spend a lot of time trying to work out how I can spend more time in Somerset and less in London. I think I'd rather miss not going to the Smoke occasionally, but I so enjoy my time at home that it is tempting to give up quite a bit in order to have that bit of extra lifestyle.

The main event at Preston this year was 8 Labrador PUPPIES. Utterly gorgeous, but very hard work and tragic to see them all go, even to good homes. We kept one yellow gal, though, now a bouncing 5-month-old, so life in Somerset is one long Bitches' Ball as she and Dotty careen around the kitchen pretending to kill each other.
Nov. 2006

  Oliver Robertson worshipped with us before he went to University in Glasgow. He is currently at the Quaker United Nations Office (QUNO). He is also our Friend Ruth Robertson's son.

"It is now two months since I arrived in Geneva to work as a programme assistant on the human rights and refugees desk at the Quaker United Nations Office (QUNO), and nearly three since I left Glasgow to do so. My role, while slightly different from the one-year peaceworker jobs run by Quaker Peace and Social Witness (QPSW), was advertised in the same place and my training took place with those peaceworkers going to Britain, Serbia and South Africa. Altogether ten one-year workers met during the two-week preparation period QPSW organised at Friends House in London and Woodbrooke Quaker Study Centre in Birmingham, which introduced us to the work done by Quakers in Britain and abroad and helped us to prepare mentally and spiritually for our placements.

QUNO operates out of a house in the north of Geneva, a short bus ride from the UN and other international institutions. It very much has the feel of a house rather than an office: my desk is in the conservatory, next door is the dining room which we use when having diplomats round to dinner, beyond that are the wooden stairs which creak mightily whenever anyone walks on them and out back is a garden with apple and peach trees and a swing.

This doesn’t stop you having to work, however, and a lot of the work I have done so far has involved going to meetings and getting a feel for who does what where and when. I have also been doing lots of reading, mugging up on the issues that QUNO is concerned about at present (these include the situation of women in prison and the children of imprisoned mothers, rights of conscientious objectors and problems faced specifically by refugee women and girls). Like all work it has boring and interesting moments, but the wealth of people with real expertise who want to tell you about these important issues (be it in word or in print) mean the latter definitely outweigh the former.
Nov. 2006.

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RECENT EVENTS

  National Quaker Week 2007

Click here to find out about National Quaker Week 22-30 September 2007.

  Stall at Stokefest 2007

2007 Stokefest was enjoyable, not least due to one of the rare summer days. The Quaker 'Q' subtly nested amongst the stalls, Tippee, Insect circus, art installations and representatives of the multicultural heritage of Hackney. Tea was provided for 'mature friends' under the shade of a big tree creating a scene reminiscent of the film Tea with Mussolini. The sun gave a cheerful lift to the spirit of the event and one smiling passer-by who after listening to an explanation of Quaker meetings, commented that he 'thought Quakers were silent'!
Barbara Taylor

Stokefest is always an enjoyable and looked-forward-to event. This year, 10th June, will be especially memorable because Stoke Newington Quakers suggested inviting a small group of elderly people from Walthamstow Age Link (which I co-ordinate for outings once a month,) to attend the festival and enjoy the fun. Everyone from Quakers who attended helped in various ways.

After Worship I drove to Walthamstow to pick up three ladies, Betty, Doris and Maud, while Kugan (from Walthamstow Sai Baba Centre), picked up Audrey and Ron. On arrival at Clissold Park, James and Barbara were at the gate to meet and greet, and escort the guests to the trestle table which had been borrowed from St. Mary's Hall, carried down Church Street and placed under a shady tree near to the Quaker stall, while the drivers searched for a parking space. (The traffic wardens were out in abundance that day).

Age Link and  Quakers - Stokefest '07Leasa and I had previously loaded Leasa's car with a prepared picnic, flasks of tea and fruit juice, fold-up chairs etc., so these were ready and waiting when the guests arrived. Leasa and Precious served the refreshments immediately and introductions were made. Precious, who lives nearby, very kindly replenished the flasks of tea as needed.

When I arrived back from parking the car, it was as if everyone had known each other always, so happy were the faces around the table. Someone later pointed out, and I'm not sure who said it, but it was so true, that, in all the wonderful, colourful, noisy, happy, ethnic diversity being celebrated and enjoyed all around us, there was, at that table under the beautiful tree, a snap shot of old England in that tea-party .

A walk around the festival site followed, and was much enjoyed. The weather was June-glorious, with a heaven-sent refreshing breeze. There was so much to see and experience. Our Age Link group thoroughly enjoyed the fun-filled atmosphere in its every diversity.

Back to the Quaker "patch" for a last cup of tea before wending our way through the park to the car. We stopped at the 16th century Old Church which was open in preparation for evensong. The Group were very interested to see inside this little gem, asking interested questions which were informatively answered by those on duty in the church. The church visit appropriately finished off a divine day.

I received more "thank you" phone calls than usual from the Age Link Group, following the Stokefest. The thanks were directed at Stokey Quakers and those who were mentioned by name were: Leasa and Arthur, Barbara, James, Peter, Precious and Woody.

Thank you once again, to all of you who helped to give our little group such a wonderful afternoon.
Vickie Nealis

  Visit to Hoxton Hall

On 1 December 16 of us went to ‘The Bitches’ Ball’ at Hoxton Hall.

Hoxton Hall, still owned by Quakers, but not run by them, used to be a music hall. The theatre space still has that atmosphere. It is surprisingly small, with seating for around 60 (from what I could count) and a minimal performing space on a number of levels.

Poster Mick Barnfather‘The Bitches’ Ball’ has as its director Mick Barnfather, who is known as a performer with Théâtre de Complicité, one of the world’s better known physical theatre companies. This was a great recommendation for what, with its rather challenging title - and poster - might not have caught the interest, of me, at least!

It was a great piece. Most of us came out of it saying how much we had enjoyed it.

It is the story of Mary Robinson, a girl from Bristol, who makes it big in London as an actress and , as seemed to be inevitable in those days, as a courtesan, who included the Prince of Wales among her suitors. We see her rise; then her fall, through scandal and paralysis.

Much of the action was conducted as comedy. That said, the shifts of mood, through ecstatic to despairing, were remarkable. Mary Robinson was also a prolific poet and the ending saw her spirit rising out of degredation with her poetry on her lips. I found this very moving; it is for her poetry, which I think was heroic, that we should remember her.

The play was presented as an ensemble piece – with 4 of the 5 actors playing a number of roles. And it was physical theatre, which I discover I find to be a very complex term – so for the moment I will link to what Wikipedia says about it. Perhaps someone who reads this and knows more, would like to contribute?!

We ate beforehand at the Song Que Café, a Vietnamese restaurant recommended by Hoxton Hall. At first they were anxious that we would not all turn up in time, so we were allocated a smaller table - which they added tables to as people arrived (we all did)! Prices seemed modest for what we ate. I’m not sure what makes a dish specifically Vietnamese – as compared, say, to Chinese. I had a large noodle soup with rare steak, which I was told was typically Vietnamese and was good. Friends who ate vegetarian dishes were also pleased.

As a group, we included 5 non-Quakers, 1 Quaker from Ealing Meeting and 2 from Bunhill Fields Meeting (though Molly has been worshipping with us as well recently). Which means, of course, that there were 8 from Stoke Newington Meeting.

We were delighted to have Olive Yarrow with us. She has memories of Hoxton Hall from when she was a very little girl and adolescent. I also discovered during the evening that Precious, one of our Co-Clerks, had lived in Hoxton Hall and participated in their activities, in the mid-1970s.

I enjoyed the evening a lot as a whole. I hope we develop our relationship with Hoxton Hall, a delightful Fringe venue!
I wonder if others who went would care to contribute to this piece?
James Grant.
See reviews by Time Out     The Stage

I disagree with James, in that in my view we saw the Fall first. It wasn't clear how grave Mary Robinson's paralysis was nor how much of a hearing she got for her poetry. Hence I wasn't sure whether the "moral" was triumph-over-adversity or pride-goeth-before-a... But the production was fascinating and impressive and should be seen by all who can.
Margot Lunnon

I was one of the happy band who congregated at Hoxton Hall to see the performance of the Bitches Ball. The Victorian venue itself, while it was of a later date than the setting of the play, added greatly to the atmosphere.

Initially I was mesmerised by the principal actress Mira Dovreni, playing Mary Robinson. She was on stage while we took our seats, a good fifteen or twenty minutes, probably longer. As a former artist’s model I know how difficult it is to stay still for protracted periods.

The play itself was amazing which, in my opinion, was due almost entirely to the quality of the acting. The staging was quirky and inventive, making great use of props and costume changes. But overall it was the acting, which wasn’t at all the sort of artificial, declamatory acting you often get in the West End - and which is the main reason why I don’t like conventional theatre.

The whole ensemble was magnificent, and I hope to see each individual actor again, but Mira Dovreni was the find of the evening. Physically she reminded me a lot of Gina McKee and she also had McKee’s sort of wide-eyed quality. Overall though it was her natural acting - acting that didn’t seem like acting - that was so compelling. I hope she’ll have a wonderful career and that I’ll get the chance to see her again.
Clodagh Phelan
See a short film with Mira Divreni.





  Quaker Stall at Stoke Newington Festival in Clissold Park on 24 September 2006.

Stokefest logoThank you, everyone who helped with this stall. There were 7 of us throughout the day.

This year, as well raising the profiles of Quakerism and our Meeting, we were supporting a new website A Star for Darfur, publicising the dreadful situation in that region. In this we were helped by Joe Jenkins, one of the originators of the website.

Joe and Dafur postersWe were placed in a group of stalls slightly away from the main activities, so there was a slow start. However, as the Park filled up, more people came to see us.

During the afternoon we sold 26 fundraising Dafur badges/ribbons and obtained 76 signatures on a petition - to be sent to the UN. Beyond that Joe and his parents handed out hundreds of leaflets providing information about the situation in Dafur.

And there were a good number of people interested in Quakerism.

Stokefest '06 StallIt was a lovely sunny day and the park was pretty full. However, because it is a big space this was not uncomfortable. There was a wide range of good food on sale. And an interesting Festival programme. At one stage we found ourselves near two sets of entertaining drummers, who generally managed a good marriage between their styles.

The light across the park in the early evening was quite dreamlike. All in all a good experience. A good Stokefest 2006!
James Grant

We sold several tea towels as I remember. Oh, and the only copy of Quaker Faith & Practice. Dialogue with local North London Action for the Homeless, Bouverie Road. Chat with two ex-pupils of the Quaker School in Saffron Walden who enjoyed their education. Everyone who took part were volunteers, I understand.
Vicki Nealis.

The new Quaker Posters (which have lots of information about Quakers on the back of beautiful pictures/Quaker sayings) disappeared like hot cakes,especially the one with the dove of peace. Several teachers were particularly delighted with them.

As usual, the Quaker teatowels (Two Donkeys; Historical Quakers) sold well, and also their display, along with the Quaker posters, attracted people to the stall.

Several enquirers had previous Quaker connections, eg a woman who had 2 Quaker grandfathers; another who had enjoyed a LEAP course as a teenager, and two men who had attended Quaker schools.

Lots of people, including the stallholders next to us, said,"Quakers, I've never heard of them before!" So, perhaps it was a good thing we were there!

Over a dozen people (aged 10 months to over 60!) had fun making Stars for Darfur, using Joe's ingenious origami method, and multicoloured paper.
Ann Carline Gilks

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